You must not violate these 4 rules in a relationship

 


When the relationship with the person next to us is harmonious and lasting, life is significantly easier. 

Of course, that's not always the case. Especially if we made the wrong choice. The next four moments we will present will help you find out if your relationship with your partner has a future. If so, how to build it and keep it healthy and happy, and how to understand that the time has come to end it.

1. Do not try to make someone love you.

People don't have to exchange love. I don't think you can love someone who's in love with you if you don't like them, can you? We must treat the feelings and choices of others with respect. You can get better. Then the person whose love you are trying to win will decide for himself whether you are ready for his feelings.

2. If you are loved, you will feel that way.

Everyone has a vague idea of how to show a good attitude towards him. In any case, you may notice it if someone spends more time with you, respects you, and cares about your feelings – no matter how it happens. But if your partner is always busy, this is a reason to look soberly at the situation and stop looking for excuses for his behavior.



3. Learn to love yourself to love someone else.

Loving yourself is not selfish. It's respect for one's own feelings and desires. Loving yourself means not giving up in the name of dubious pleasures or not being with someone who is indifferent to you. Love allows you to preserve dignity and act with integrity in any situation. If you know how to love yourself, you will treat other people in the same way with love and respect, and you will never make your partner do anything against his will.

4. Do not detain a person who is no longer in love with you.

This is a common mistake. As cruel as it sounds, no one has to love you forever, whether you donated it with three children or built it a diamond palace. And if his feelings for you go away, think about the best you can do: end the old story and start a new one.

Photos by Vitor Pinto and Priscilla Du Preez on Unsplash

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